Conventional Methods Don’t Work Long-Term.  Let me show you why!  Knowledge alone doesn’t matter. Only Actions Matter:

1) Learn how to control your emotional states in the moment!
2) Attract (and keep!) the love of your life
3) Learn my Method that doctors, therapists, and psychologists come to me to use!

3 days can make a much bigger

difference than you think! 😊

Our step-by-step game plan our clients use to take their life to the next level, without having to read a zillion books or attend bogus seminars.

10 Game-Changing Insights My Successful Clients Use

YOU are the only true love of your life.  When you are conditioned to feel amazing, you attract the right people, the right circumstances, and an amazing life.

Consider the classic phrase, “There is just something about them.”  THOSE are the people who live a magical existence! They feel great REGARDLESS of their external world, and they are truly the master of their emotions, their relationships, and their life.

Well guess what?  If you have the right conditioning process, there could be something about you too.  :)

I even have doctors, therapists and psychologists take my program. Let me show you why!  You don't have to suffer anymore!

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Since 2012 has reshaped and resurrected the lives of thousands of men and women, helping them pick up the pieces and reinvigorate their lives after experiencing an emotional challenge.  His Refocus On Happiness program is the program that conventional healers come to for their healing.

Attract and keep the love of your life

Here is the reason why...

Here is the truth.

WHEN YOU CAN 100% TRUST YOUR ABILITY TO CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS YOU BECOME INVINCIBLE!

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HERE'S WHAT MY CLIENTS ARE SAYING

Barbara Ann, 
Lance's program literally SAVED my life!!! In more ways than one.

Elizabeth Upshaw, 
This is more than a program. For me…this is a Life saver!

Lance Mikkel

Creator of Refocus On Happiness,  THE PROGRAM that conventional healers come to for their healing.

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How to reclaim your power

when dealing with a

breakup, “time apart" or

 relationship challenge!

To do this within days requires you to do something very unconventional. It requires you to do something that you probably never thought was possible. It requires you to get over all the past hurt and disappointment within days rather than the conventional wisdom that tells you that it takes weeks, months, or even years.

How to reclaim your power when

dealing with a breakup, “time apart”

 or relationship challenge!

Conventional Methods Don’t Work Long-Term. 

Let me show you why!

Knowledge alone doesn’t matter.  Only Actions Matter!  Knowing something and feeling something are two different things:

1) Learn how to control your emotional states in the moment!

2) Attract (and keep!) the love of your life.

3) Learn my Method that doctors, therapists, and psychologists come to me to use!

3 days can make a much bigger

difference than you think! 😊

Here is the reason why I can guarantee my results by a VERY SPECIFIC graduation date AND why your previous coach or counselor could not!

This is what makes Refocus On Happiness different than anything else out there.

So, to keep this simple, the two most valuable resources in your life are:

Emotional States and energy.

Think about it, if you can’t control your emotions, how TF are you going to stop yourself from saying or doing the wrong things?  As soon as your emotions get the better of you, all your ‘great concepts’ go out the window!

“It does not matter what you know conceptually!”  It only matters what you can do!  And if you can’t control your emotional states, you essentially know nothing!” – Lance Mikkel

You might have a lot of good ‘concepts’ from your run-of-the-mill coach or counselor, but as soon as you start to feel fear, sadness, or anger, all of those concepts become worthless!  And that is when you sabotage your relationships and your life.

The quality of your life comes down to your ability to make good decisions and say the right things at the right time.  But if you are on the emotional roller coaster THAT is when you say things you shouldn’t say, or do things you shouldn’t do.  That is when you later tell your friend “I shouldn’t have said that!”

If your coach or counselor didn’t address the emotional core in a way that makes your ability to control your emotions EVERY DAY, you essentially were given a band-aid.

It’s not complicated.  Mediocre coaching yields mediocre results.  If you want a Harvard life, you should probably goto Harvard and do it right the first time!

But Refocus On Happiness process changes all that on day one by addressing the actual core of your problem, your emotional conditioning!  It makes the science of neural plasticity a tangible touch it, taste it, feel it, reality.  This process literally will teach you how to condition your brain like you recondition a muscle.  And you’ll have an experience even in the very first week that something is indisputably happening biologically.  You are literally becoming a biologically upgraded version of yourself.   You might have heard the concept “brain cells that fire together wire together” but it’s probably only a concept for you. 

Well guess what.  I even have medical doctors take my program.  Here is a medical director with 30 years of experience in the medical profession that will tell you firsthand how my 30-minute Refocus On Happiness process did for him what 30 years of conceptual understanding could not!

Why?

When you are "good either way" and are able to bounce back quickly after emotional challenges, you do not compromise in your relationships or life!

That is why the ability to control your emotions is THE MOST IMPORTANT SKILL you will ever learn.

And make no mistake, it is a skill!  Or even more specifically it is conditioning!

And unlike your previous 'well-meaning coach' I can teach that skill so your ability to feel AWESOME and "good either way" becomes a new way of living and feeling every day, regardless of what happens in your relationship and life.  And that is true power!

And unlike your previous 'well-meaning coach' I offer a rock-solid graduation date of 6 weeks and I guarantee you will experience a night and day difference.

And unlike your previous 'well-meaning coach' I don't even offer a follow-up program.  I am not looking to sell you 'the next step'.

I will be your one and done!

I will be the best friend you never knew you had.

But why didn't your last coach offer a rock-solid graduation date?  Is it possible that's because they don't really know how to deliver the outcome you really want?

And how come they offer 'next level' programs?  Why can't they just fix it the first time?

Hmmmm.....

Well I am going to make it so obvious what I represent for you, that I believe that the only reason you wouldn’t do this is if you were a glutton for punishment.

“Be so good they can’t ignore you – Steve Martin

I invite you to check out my YouTube page. You will never see from anyone else on planet Earth such compelling evidence that there is indeed a better way to get over past hurt, disappointment and betrayal and bring back the joy in your life every day REGARDLESS of the external events of the world.  And now! And these are not two-minute videos! These are sometimes hour-long “this was the best program I ever did!” videos. You will see these words echoed from doctors and other numerous medical professionals!

Personally, I believe if after reviewing all those video testimonials, you still choose to not to work with me, you might just be a glutton for punishment.  And before you start posting online how arrogant I am, what I am telling you should be even more of a reason to listen to me. What you are hearing is not ego, it is unwavering 1000% confidence that I can get you feeling better now!  I’ve even taught this at hospitals, and there’s a very good reason for that!

This process is about you getting REAL emotional control, REAL emotional power and resiliency.  First, let me be clear.  Power is a superior emotion to happiness.  Power is the foundation and springboard for all the most beautiful emotions, including happiness and joy. Power is more sustainable and attainable in any given moment. And I do want to re-emphasize, I am not referring to power over others, I am simply referring to the raw emotion of feeling powerful and purposeful regardless of your external world! That is true freedom! That is bliss! That is happiness redefined! That is pure joy in human form! And that is absolutely yours for the taking if you are willing to work for it.

If you’d like to learn more about this daily 30-Minute practice, and you’re ready to clock in your time the brain gym, just click the “Contact Me” button below!

Adam Tarbox, 
Lance and his program are both phenomenal!

Why listen to me

Alex Bair,
If you are sitting on your couch waiting for that "special" person to call or text you...you'll be waiting a long time. Unless you call Lance.

Brionne Thomas,
This was the best investment I ever made for myself and I am sooooo GRATEFUL.

Jennifer DiFilippo,
Well the skills that Lance gives you aren’t just for a moment, they’re skills that support your happiness for a lifetime. And the individualized attention and genuine care that Lance gives you through his course is unlike anything else you can find out there...